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©UNICEF/Syria 2018/ Khudr Al-Issa
Rama, 8, walks using a walker, in her neighborhood in eastern Aleppo.

 

By Basma Ourfali

Little Rama, now eight, has grown up knowing nothing but war. When she was only a toddler, her family was forced to flee their home in east Aleppo as violence escalated, moving from one area to another.

The injury

Rama was only five years-old when a shell hit the mosque where her family was sheltering in Aleppo. That day her spine was severely injured and she lost her ability to walk.

The attack also took a toll on Rama’s spirit: “I was so scared of everything all the time,” says Rama, “every time I heard a loud noise, I thought it was another shell.”

Rama spent her days isolated from her friends and three siblings, lying down on a thin mattress in the dark.

“She refused to speak to anyone after that, not even her father or myself,” says Rama’s mother, Kafa. “She wanted to stay alone, she could not handle people asking her questions or offering her sympathy.”

But Kafa refused to see her daughter give up on life. She made it her calling to help Rama regain her confidence and be a child again.

“My mother used to place my feet on the ground and carry me through a full game of hopscotch so I could play with the other children in the mosque’s courtyard,” says Rama, glancing lovingly at her mother.

“Whenever she did that, all I could do was tell her, ‘I love you’. She makes me happy and gives me hope that I will walk soon.”

The return

Last year, amid a respite in violence, Rama and her family moved back to their home in war-ravaged east Aleppo. Even though it was damaged in the fighting, Rama and her siblings were ecstatic about having a home of their own.

“Mother! We have our own kitchen and bathroom, we don’t have to share a bedroom with many people!” says Kafa, mimicking what her children used to tell her, with an expression that is a mixture of relief and sadness.

Rama was especially happy to be back home.

“I have so many memories in this house,” she says. “Even though I was very young when we left, I remember playing and running around with my brothers and sisters.”

The road to recovery

Rama started physiotherapy very soon after the attack. But the cost of the therapy and the medicine she needed proved too costly for her family. Her father who works as a house painter does not have a regular income.

But last year, Rama’s family was one of over 6,000 families to receive monthly cash assistance from UNICEF, to support families of children with complex disabilities. The cash assistance paid for Rama’s physiotherapy sessions and medicine.

Since the start of this year, UNICEF has faced funding constraints, meaning that Rama’s family has not received the cash assistance. As a result, they are unable to pay for her regularly.

“The allowance was helping us purchase her expensive medicine,” says Kafa. “Now, we can afford it for one month and often have to skip it the next. It depends on our income.”

Rama has made great improvements through physiotherapy. She is now able to sit up straight and walk short distances with the help of a walker. The rest of the time, she uses a wheelchair to get around.

“It takes me too long to walk for a very short distance and my arms hurt sometimes when I use the walker,” says Rama, whose every step, movement or slight improvement is met with loud cheers and encouragement from her family.

“When I took my first step, I was scared that I would fall, but that fear is gone now,” she adds with a smile.

Despite everything she has been through, Rama is determined to continue her education and wants to become a pediatrician in the future. She attends 2nd Grade in a school in east Aleppo but sometimes has to miss class to attend her physiotherapy sessions.

“I feel sad that my mother has to carry me up and down the stairs every day to go to school and physiotherapy – we live on the fifth floor!” says Rama, with wisdom beyond her years. “She gets very tired, but when I recover, I will do everything I can to make her happy.”

Rama is also determined to walk again and daydreams about when that day will come.

“One day, I’ll go to the park with my family, and will race all the children there and win!”.

©UNICEF/Syria 2018/ Khudr Al-Issa
Rama, 8, writes a letter in her home in Salaheddine neighbouhrood in eastern Aleppo. The letter is addressed to children in Germany, in which she tells them about her life.

 

Rama shared a letter with us that she wrote for children around the world. The letter arrived neatly folded in a small plastic bag because she did not have an envelope. Rama spent three days writing this letter, her mother tells us:

My name is Rama Hashoom, I am 8 years old, from Aleppo city.

Because of war, I left my home with my family five times. We went to live in rural areas, schools or mosques that were turned into shelters.

I was playing with my friends at the mosque when a bomb injured me, it wounded my back. I couldn’t walk again. I felt sad because I couldn’t go to school like my friends. Now, I feel scared every time I hear a loud sound.

After six years of displacement, we went back home. I felt happy because my home is the place where I had my first steps. It is a place full of love and warmth.

My family helps me go to school. I wake up at seven, I drink a glass of milk then I go with my sisters Safaa, Sana and my brother Ahmed. My mother helps me up and down the stairs.

I love going to school every day to learn and meet my friends Leen and Khadijah. We have fun together.

I like maths because it is the world of numbers and it is easy to learn.

When I come back home, I do exercises for my legs and then study.

I hope I can walk again to help my mother and return the favor.

I love studying and I want to be a pediatrician when I grow up. I love children and I don’t want any child in the world to be sad.

Rama Hashoom

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